很多人的娃没有学区房，没有读私立，照样上本科啊，当然肯定有人说有了学区房读了私立，能上985211，有更辉煌的未来，但这个谁能打包票？人不可能在物质上生而平等，但可以在精神上平等，人生没有如果，每个阶段尽力而为就好啦。
最近看了一段演讲，原话是：
Life can only endure these 4 hardships to truly reach the upper echelons.
Firstly
Be diligent in thinking and being good at things,suffering from mental exhaustion.
Secondly
Patients and restraint,suffering from self discipline.
Thirdly
Reading and learning,suffering from loneliness.
Fourth
Endure humiliation,suffering from dignity.
Many friends can endure physical hardships but can’t bear the mental pain
Suffering with predetermined results not considered hardship.
Firmly believing in the hope of tomorrow and striving for it,that’s the true high level suffering．
不是装，仅仅原话呈现，家长更应该在精神上引领孩子，再佐以物质锦上添花。
如果家长买个学区房就可以给孩子的未来定性分层，那才是所有普通人的可悲。
好吧，洋洋洒洒说了一堆废话，我散养的孩子仅仅成为一个能养活自己的普通人，貌似没有资格在这儿高谈阔论。
